Stop Waiting Start Living: The Four Pillars of Empowered Decision Making in Relationships

Exactly where to start when considering the future of your relationship

When your relationship isn't how you want it to be, especially if it's high-conflict, you become obsessed with all the reasons why the relationship isn't working. It's great to have awareness. But this starting point gives away your power and keeps you stuck. I'll share what you can do instead (or, let's get real: as well!)

The vital skill to develop, whether you stay or go

Whether to finish or work on a relationship is a huge decision. And the truth is, lacking this vital skill means you're likely to make the wrong one. Working on this skill, before you do anything else means you'll make and implement a decision without regrets.

How to deal with relationship challenges

All relationships face difficulties. Not all those difficulties mean it's the end. It's crucial to understand what are 'normal' relationship challenges, and when challenges become abuse. And then to put in place appropriate strategies to move you forward - because implementing the wrong strategy can throw a grenade into your already stressed situation.

Why it doesn't get easier

Putting off difficult decisions feels easier than facing them. We all do it: suddenly the ironing, shopping or latest Netflix release becomes priority. But do you really want to be feeling like this next January? Putting off dealing with your relationship worries doesn't make them go away. You're just letting them live rent-free in your head for longer.

 Imagine being given the tools to support you to begin to make decisions one step at a time at the pace that's right for you. No big leaps necessary. How amazing will that feel knowing that you can make subtle changes that will change your relationship dynamic forever? 

Is your relationship taking over your head?

There's only so long we can pretend everything's fine, before our brains (and sometimes our bodies too - stress-related illness from relationships is real!) stop us hiding any more. You can't ignore the whispers.

What if you could just learn the secret to making a good decision in your relationship? Whether you decide to stay or go? And have a strategy for life, to help you whenever the struggle crops up again (and it will, because unlikes the fairytales, our 'happy' doesn't come with an 'ever after' guarantee).

'Stop Waiting Start Living: The Four Pillars of Empowered Decision Making In Relationships' will share how to do just that.

YOUR'E UNHAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP FEELING LOST, LONELY, FRUSTRATED OR BORED.

You always end up in relationships where you don’t get your own needs met and you feel like you spend your time looking after everyone else.

ONE MINUTE YOU'RE READY TO THROW IN THE TOWEL AND WALK AWAY FROM THE RELATIONSHIP FOR GOOD.

You know that there is more out there for you. You can see it, you can almost touch it but it doesn’t quite feel within reach.

ANOTHER MINUTE YOU'RE COMMITTED TO HOLDING ON AND MAKING IT WORK

You’d love this relationship to work because you’re heavily invested and the future without it feels scary.

THE TRUTH IS, YOU'RE ALL OVER THE PLACE WITH OVERTHINKING, PROCRASTINATION AND FEARS ABOUT THE FUTURE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You’re tired of flip-flopping with indecision and you want 2024 to be the year you get your needs met in your current relationship or you walk away with CONFIDENCE and CLARITY.